Pastoral Friendship

The Forgotten Piece in a Persevering Ministry

Michael A. G. Haykin, Brian Croft and James B. Carroll

Description

Friendship is a need that touches the deepest parts of the human soul. This is especially true in ministry. It is a need that is not simply rooted in enjoyment and companionship, but in the necessity to care well of one’s soul and survive a long–term ministry. This book seeks to persuade every modern pastor of the essential need of friendship. And not just any friendship, but a close, personal, intimate, and sacrificial pastor–to–pastor friendship that regularly turns each other’s gaze to Jesus.

 

Friends and pastors, Michael Haykin, Brian Croft and James Carroll examine portraits of friendship in scripture and church history, before exhorting readers to modern pastoral friendships.

 

Contents

Foreword by Austin Walker

Introduction

Part 1: Looking Back

1.     Portraits of Friendships in Scripture

2.     A Pastoral Friendship (1): Basil of Caesarea and Eusebius of Samosata (4th Century)

3.     A Pastoral Friendship (2): Benjamin Francis and Joshua Thomas (18th Century)

Part 2: Looking Ahead

4.     The Command for Friendship

5.     The Blessings of Friendship

6.     The Challenges of Friendship

7.     Modern Exhortations to Pastoral Friendship

Conclusion

Endorsements

Haykin, Croft, and Carroll offer gospel–grounded help for pastors who desperately need friends, and the good fruit that God provides through them.

Ronnie Martin
Lead Pastor, Substance Church, Ashland, Ohio; author, ‘Pastoring Small Towns’

You are your best self, and so you are the best shepherd to God’s people, when deep abiding friendships mark your life. This book is a treasure for a pastor and for those that love them, especially as their friends.

Bryan Baise
Associate Professor of Philosophy and Apologetics, Boyce College Professor, Friendship and the Christian Life Course

… convincingly demonstrates from scripture and from history how loyal, supportive companionship (not just ‘excessive acquaintanceship’) can build resilience through the rigors of battle, and perseverance amidst the storms and isolating pressures of ministry. 

Lee Gatiss
Director of Church Society, and Adjunct Lecturer in Church History, Union School of Theology, Bridgend, Wales

Dear pastors, for the good of your soul, do not merely take up and read this excellent work; develop intimate friendships as a result!

Ryan Rippee
Pastor, Trinity Church of Benicia, and President, The Cornerstone Bible College and Seminary, Vallejo, California

We have too readily absorbed the radical individualism of our culture, and then wonder why we are lonely and overburdened. This book is a biblical, historical, and practical study of friendship for Christian leaders that I hope will be widely read and deeply.

Joel R. Beeke
Chancellor, Puritan Reformed Theological Seminary, Grand Rapids, Michigan

The authors recognise the challenges in cultivating such friendship but, at the same time, convincingly promote its blessings as reflecting what it means to be truly human and authentically Christian.

Edwin Ewart
Principal, The Irish Baptist College

Author

Michael A. G. Haykin

Michael A. G. Haykin is Professor of Church History and Biblical Spirituality at the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, Louisville, Kentucky, and Director of the Andrew Fuller Center for Baptist Studies in Louisville, Kentucky.

Brian Croft

Brian Croft is Senior Pastor of Auburndale Baptist Church in Louisville, Kentucky and is the Founder of Practical Shepherding. He is also Senior Fellow of the Mathena Center for Church Revitalization at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary.

James B. Carroll

James B. Carroll has been the Senior Pastor at Parkway Baptist in Bardstown, Kentucky since 2010.

Specifications

ISBN 9781527109162

Authors Michael A. G. Haykin, Brian Croft and James B. Carroll

Imprint Focus

Category Ministry

Page Count 160

Width 7.7952798 in

Height 5.118113 in

Weight 0.3527392 lbs

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